Help The American Cancer Society and Get some publicity for Your Blog too!

15 06 2008

While surfing over at SocialSpark.com I came across this.

The BenSpark blog owner Drew Bennett is walking in The American Cancer Society Walk for Life this month and has made some very good offers available to bloggers who donate and help him reach his goal of $250.I would love to help this guy out but unfortunately I came across this blog in the middle of the month which is always a tight time for me. However, I am spreading the word for him because this is a very worthwhile cause.

You can view his personal page and check out The BenSpark blog to get the details of his offer.

Like what you see, please subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting!Have a Great Day!



In Memorial of a Special Woman

15 05 2008

I am cross posting this from  my blog over  at  Wildheart’s  Works.

I am writing this post for two reasons. One my blogger friend Anthony over at Old School SEO had something to do with it and after 7 years of my grandmother being gone I decided I needed to deal with her death in some way. My choice of dealing with things has always been writing.

 

My grandmother was my mother. She along with my grandfather gave up their retirement to take care of four kids that suffered early on the signs of attachment issues and early trauma from being neglected, and abandoned. My biological mother was not a mother to us. She neglected us and ended up being the cause behind us being taken away by the state and being put into foster homes. My grandparents fought hard to get us back together because they didn’t want us to go around in the world wondering who our brothers and sisters were. Despite the dysfunctional ways they grew up they had their family throughout their life. As soon as my mom went through all the motions for the court to fake she had changed she ditched us. I was 7 at the time. My grandmother made me who I am today a strong woman who knows how to take care of herself and her son. She made sure that I would not follow the same footsteps that my mom did. She took me aside and showed me how to do everything that involved running a household. By the time I was 15 and forced to leave home I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt I could take care of myself when the time came. Our relationship afterwards was tested due to the fact that my grandfather who molested me held all the emotional cards to keep her from leaving him.

 

There are so many good memories I have of her and so many memories I have that I know I tried her patience time and time again. I was angry not at her but at the fact I would never get to know my dad and at the fact that I had no idea why my mom didn’t love me enough to want to stick around to be a mom to me. I was angry at being put in foster homes and juggled all over the place. Later I became angry because I was being molested and lived in a town where no one believed me until I did something drastic to get out of the situation. I could never be angry with my grandmother. I loved her too much. It wasn’t until I had been in three abusive relationships that I knew what she suffered being with my grandfather from her perspective.

 

I did falter in my confidence as a mom when she passed away because I didn’t know what I was going to do without her. Then a voice that was more like a scream than a whisper told me I was going to do what I did every day. Get up and take care of my son. Be the mother she tried to teach my mom to be, but had succeeded in teaching me to be. She gave me all the tools to be a great mother. She is my inspiration for running my blogs and doing what I do on the internet each day. I keep a picture of her handy now to look at when I get to feeling down or depressed. She seems to look at me like “You can do whatever you put your mind to; you are a pretty girl with a great complexion and you’re very smart.”

Inspired by Old School SEO Mother’s Day Giveaway for Mom Blogger’s



Kansans and Friends ranked on Blogged!

13 05 2008


Kansans and Friends In Weight Loss at Blogged

Someone has taken notice of this blog and has given me a fairly good ranking as you can see. I was pleasantly surprised. I want to thank those who follow my blog and for hanging in there with me. Even though I don’t get much in the way of comments I can still tell folks are coming here.

I will continue to write good quality posts and also provide other resources. This will always be a great resource and support blog for those wanting to get healthy from the inside out.



Your Health and Your Blogging Part 2

9 04 2008

I spent some time looking through one of my textbooks that I have acquired since going to school, looking for some ideas to give people out there in the blogosphere to stay healthy so they can keep doing what they love to do. I think before I can clearly give any sound suggestions. I think it is important that I have some sort of assessment tool in hand so I can maybe gauge what people are struggling with and what they would like suggestions in changing.

With that being said I do want to make you aware of the fact that I am not a Doctor (yet) and before you take the advice of anyone you should always consult a Medical Doctor and get a physical done before embarking on a new fitness and diet regimen. However, I can assist you with figuring out what you enjoy to do for physical activity and what you enjoy eating so that the term diet doesn’t sound so foreboding.

There are six dimensions of wellness that make up the health continuum

  1. Physical
  2. Intellectual
  3. Interpersonal/social
  4. Emotional
  5. Spiritual
  6. Environmental


A person can be emotionally well but not be physically well. They can have intellectual wellness but lack social wellness and spiritual wellness. Or even intellectual wellness but no physical wellness.  So what good is knowing all there is to know about blogging or even how to successfully build and maintain a web site if you are so run down you can’t focus? Instead you pop another No Doze and hope to stay awake for another hour trying to scoop someone. Before you know it the excessive caffeine builds up in your digestive tract and starts causing ulcers. Ok so that isn’t a very good push for caffeine as a whole as I am sitting here with a freshly opened can of Diet Pepsi next to me as I type this out. My problem is that I am on a high enough dosage of Zoloft that it makes me drowsy about two hrs after taking it so I need the boost through something so I go through a 24 can case of Diet Pepsi in about four days. That is six cans a day and at 35 mg’s of caffeine per can that is 210 mg’s a day of caffeine. So no I am not hoping on the caffeine is bad for you bandwagon because that would certainly make me look like a hypocrite.

I think what I would like to do instead is take some time to put together a survey OMG not another survey LOL. Yes just so I can help people see where their habits are and then help use the results to better suggest what they could try to make staying healthy maybe not so tedious and boring so they can be alert and handle the demands of their editors and readers or at least their readers if they are self edited. So I am going to be working after my podcast this Friday to put together my own little survey to send out to willing participants.

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Your Health and Your Blogging

7 04 2008

I opened up my email this morning and saw this story about bloggers who are blogging themselves to death. “Two weeks ago in North Lauderdale, Fla., funeral services were held for Russell Shaw, a prolific blogger on technology subjects who died at 60 of a heart attack. In December, another tech blogger, Marc Orchant, died at 50 of a massive coronary. A third, Om Malik, 41, survived a heart attack in December.”

I was disturbed at this trend in how we are becoming such a slave to the PC and Internet that we are willing to die for our work. Not only that but die at an early age. This got me thinking about what other trends in health are on the rise over just the course of a decade or so. According to National Center for Health Statistics,and National Vital Statistics Reports between 1999 and 2001 the leading six causes of death due to diet and inactivity were heart disease,cancer, stroke,diabetes,kidney disease, and hypertension.Further in a 2000assessment people who led sedentary lives had 23.2 days in a 30 day time period where they felt healthy. They reported 3.9 days out of the month were they felt sad, blue or depressed and 8.1 days having trouble sleeping.”Other bloggers complain of weight loss or gain, sleep disorders, exhaustion and other maladies born of the nonstop strain of producing for a news and information cycle that is as always-on as the Internet.” These numbersdefinitely support on some level the New York post’s information regarding blogging till you drop.

I looked into some other statistics and what I found was just more confirmation that our sedentary lifestyles are not helping us but hurting us instead. In the most recent study I could find from the CDC I found this:

The percentage of adults who spent most of their day sitting increased from 36.8% in 2000 to 39.9% in 2005. A similar increase was seen among both men and women, adults aged 25 years and over, and non-Hispanic white adults. Overall, the percentage of adults who spent most of their day standing or walking decreased between 2000 and 2005. A similar decrease was seen among adults aged 65 years and over and non-Hispanic white adults.


Kansas Jumped from 5% reporting unhealthy days of more than 14 days to 9% from 1993 to 2006

Kansas also jumped from 6.5% to 9.1% reporting mentally unhealthy days of more than 14 days to 1993 to 2006

Overall in Kansas there has been an increase of 4 days to 5.4 days of being physically or mentally unhealthy.

Between 1998 and 2006 Kansas reported fair or poor self rated health initially in 1993 of 12.0 to 17.3 in 2006

These numbers are from

Health, United States an annual report on trends in health statistics.


On the plus side smoking has decreased for men and women nationally with smoking by men at 50% in 1965 to just under 30% in 2005 and just over 30% in women to about 20% within the same time frame. Even smoking by pregnant mothers declined from 20% in 1995 to 10% in 2005

Between 1999 to 2004 adults between 18 and 44 eat 1 to 3 meals out at a rate of just over 50% while they eat 4 or more meals out about 35% of the time

Overweight including obese has risen from 45% to 70% for the 20 to 74 yr old age group between 1960 to 2004

Arthritis/musculoskeletal, heart/circulatory, mental illness, diabetes are the top 4 conditions reported between 2004 to 2005 that cause activity limitations

Last but not least Antidepressant use by men increase from about 3% between 1988 to 1994 to about 7% between 1992 to 2002 and by women from about 4% between 1988 to 1994 to about 13% between 1999 to 2002

So you can see some pretty disturbing trends here. I love to blog and at the moment I am not getting paid huge bucks to blog, but I can’t see running my health into the ground to get a jump on the competition. I am in bed no later than 12:30 each night with the rare exception that I am working on a design, I keep healthy foods around to snack on like whole wheat bread for peanut butter and jelly sandwich’s , carrots, grapes, bananas, yogurt, skim milk, diet soda just to name a few. I make sure I get at least 30 min of fairly intense activity about every other day. At the moment that is taking the form of house work and playing out doors with my kid. I too am on antidepressants so I really have to work at keeping my body in good shape so the antidepressants can properly do there job.

You can see why now is it is crucial to focus on preventative health measures instead of treatment. Because in the case of the bloggers who blogged themselves ragged their deaths could have been prevented if in fact their sedentary lifestyles contributed to the cause of their deaths, in which reading this article it appears that it did.



The Voice of Bragg Reviews Kansans and Friends in Weight Loss

11 03 2008

I went to my email this afternoon and found an email from Randy Bragg owner of The Voice of Bragg Blog. He emailed me telling me that he had reviewed my blog I was kind of shocked cause either he did it out of the blue or I must have asked for one awhile back and don’t remember.

Anyway you can find my review over at the post Kansans and Friends in Weight Loss. I also left a comment on the post too.

Needless to say it was an awesome surprise. 

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School days are here yikes!

28 08 2007

I thought I had a post ready to go for yesterday and well I had a absent minded blogger moment. School is of course way different again this semester as was all the other semesters prior to it. I have nearly no time on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I have one class on Tuesday and Thursday I am free all day. Yeah Yeah I know so with that free day I should be able to get some blogging work done … right …. yeah …. NOT.  That free day is getting spent running errands that I don’t have time to get done during the rest of the week and while I have most of the day alone to get them done.

So what I am learning? I have to take some personality tests,write a paragraph about what I think about the results and then attach them to the respective test results.

There was a quiz in biology lab today but there wasn’t and I don’t have biology lab now for two weeks. Oh and it was also called early due to the fact the fire alarms in the building had gone off. I did learn that if you applied a salt water solution to living plant cells they shrink. Oh and it is crucial to make sure you have all the air pockets out of the little specimen slip cover. Our salt water solution didn’t get to the plant cells very well:(

I am learning my US Government professor has no tolerance for intolerance and has made it perfectly clear that he will ban anyone from the class for bringing hate into the classroom. He also is not impressed with G.W. Bush either.

I am learning that I have to really get enough sleep, take my meds and stay on task or I am going to get sunk fast this semester.

Oh yeah and I preferably have to find someone in the sport profession field to interview later on for psychology of sport and fitness. Can I call in some favors now please?

Oh I went to the drag races this past weekend and got sunburned a bit bad my face is peeling. I look like a molting reptile.  That is about it I will share with you maybe as early as Friday my results on my personality test assignment. I wasn’t surprised much with the results of any of the tests I have to turn in tomorrow.

Have a good one!

Joe



Back to School Can’t Come Fast Enough!

12 08 2007

I am going to come clean, I love my kid dearly truly I do,but I am so ready for school to start back up. I have had him underfoot virtually all summer and while I do understand that he will only be a kid for so long I really need the MOM time. Having him around me can be distracting from trying to get work done. I know that I may sound selfish, but really I want some quality quiet time so I can really get down to blogging and working on really putting to use what I have been learning with Yaro Starak and his Blog Mastermind Program. I have been able to get most of it done, up to this point but there are things like being able to sit down and work on my first audio clip that I can not do justice to with him being at home and with mom all the time.

I have had huge ideas for putting together motivational clips and yes I know that the motivational niche is way overdone to some regard, but I think I can be a great motivational speaker I just need that quiet time to focus and get some good quality work done. No I am not a professional public speaker although I did take a class in public speaking and I did learn some great tips. I learned to finally figure out how to be comfortable giving a short presentation in front of a small to medium sized group.

I have been rearranging and making sure that things are as much up to legal snuff as I can get them until I can find affordable legal help to sit down with me to make sure everything straight across the board is up and up and I am free from any liability issues. I have found that Workz.com has been an invaluable resource for finding templates for everything from policy structures to templates for business proposals.

Actually I would strongly recommend that anyone who runs a weight loss support blog or site like I do really check those folks out they have some great free resources that will help you look like a polished professional in no time. I have used them for my policy structure and I have also saved a few of their other resources to use at a later date.

One other thing that I really want to do it clear the living room and get down to the business of putting together my business plan. With my son underfoot it is too much of a challenge to be able to do that and devote some quality time to develop a good sound plan.

So Wednesday is the big day I am ready for it! T minus 4 days and counting!



The Birthday meme I got tagged.

31 07 2007

Here is how it works and what ya gotta do.

You go to Wikipedia and type in your birthday (month and day). Then you write down 3 events, 2 births, 1 holiday, and tag 5 friends. There are five slots in the meme list…If you are tagged, you have to remove the name in the first slot and bump everyone up so that your name can be added to the bottom. Participation is optional.

Here’s the list:

Comedy Plus

TwistedSister…

Ugly Mailbox

Earnest Parenting

Kansans and Friends In Weight Loss

I am tagging:

Derek

AngelinaBeadalina

Jon Holato

copyblogger

Christy’s Coffee Break

3 Events

1492 - Reconquista: Granada, the last Moorish stronghold in Spain, surrenders.

1872 - Brigham Young is arrested for bigamy due to having 25 wives

1882 - John D. Rockefeller unites his oil holdings into the Standard Oil trust

2 Birthdays
1920 - Isaac Asimov, Russian-born author

1968 - Cuba Gooding Jr., American actor

1 holiday

Ancestry Day, Haiti

Kind of cool to know I share a birthday with Cuba and Issac I am not sure what Ancestry Day is but I aim to find out. I thought it would be interesting to highlight years from a previous century in respective decades that I was born especially a whole century before I was born about Brigham Young he is the one BYU is named after.



My Mention at Derek Semmler.com and a Collaborative Effort!

17 07 2007

My new blog friend Derek Semmler wrote a post yesterday on Speedlinking. He gave me a mention on his blog. I want to thank him over here and to let you all know that he is wanting to go to this dream 3 day chopper boot camp so if you get a chance go over and post on his blog and maybe shoot him some dough so he can fulfill his dream.

We shared company over at Wendy’s blog on the 2nd Internet group research project. and for anyone who hasn’t had a chance to go check this out let me tell you it is a phenomenal list to be sure there are so many talented individuals out there that took some time out of what must already be very busy schedules to put together one heck of a collaborative effort. I am very honored to be part of such a multi talented and diverse group of professionals.

Here is the list of the people I was fortunate to share this with.

How To’s for Home Business and Entrepreneurship

How To’s for Work-Life Balance :: Just for Dads

How To’s for Blogging and WordPress

How To’s for Social Media Marketing

How To’s for Search Engine Optimization (SEO)

How To’s for Web Analytics

How To’s for Web Design and Site Optimization

Please take a moment and check these folks out and share the link love too.

Have a Good One.

Joe






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